Private wording reflection
Turn global verdicts into one specific event.
Find broad always, never, every-time, and nothing-changes claims and replace them with specific examples.
Best fit
People whose arguments expand from one incident into judgments about the whole relationship.
Use the result carefully
- Remove names and identifying details that are not needed.
- Read every pattern match in the surrounding context.
- Edit the draft so it reflects your own experience and one doable request.
- Do not send a repair script if doing so could increase danger or retaliation.
Boundary
RepairTalkAI is a wording aid, not therapy, mediation, abuse diagnosis, legal advice, or a safety assessment. A missing safety phrase is not proof that a situation is safe.