Private wording reflection
Ask for feedback after conflict without demanding reassurance.
Prepare a feedback request after conflict with consent, timing, one question, and permission for the other person to decline.
Best fit
People seeking a thoughtful follow-up while respecting the other person's timing and boundaries.
Use the result carefully
- Remove names and identifying details that are not needed.
- Read every pattern match in the surrounding context.
- Edit the draft so it reflects your own experience and one doable request.
- Do not send a repair script if doing so could increase danger or retaliation.
Boundary
RepairTalkAI is a wording aid, not therapy, mediation, abuse diagnosis, legal advice, or a safety assessment. A missing safety phrase is not proof that a situation is safe.