Private wording reflection
Set one holiday boundary before the gathering.
Write a holiday boundary around visits, timing, topics, gifts, travel, or hosting expectations without widening the conflict.
Best fit
Family members preparing ordinary holiday logistics or topic boundaries, not emergency, legal, custody, or safety planning.
Use the result carefully
- Remove names and identifying details that are not needed.
- Read every pattern match in the surrounding context.
- Edit the draft so it reflects your own experience and one doable request.
- Do not send a repair script if doing so could increase danger or retaliation.
When a paid repair pack is worth it
Use the free current reflection first. Review paid-pack boundaries in the analyzer only after a named person has checked the source permission, intended use, missing context, privacy, and safety limits. The $49 option also needs a defined guided-review scope. Skip payment if you need therapy, mediation, abuse diagnosis, legal advice, HR strategy, urgent safety support, coercion support, or a safety assessment.
Boundary
RepairTalkAI is a wording aid, not therapy, mediation, abuse diagnosis, legal advice, or a safety assessment. A missing safety phrase is not proof that a situation is safe.