Private wording reflection
Show what you heard before making your point.
Draft a short reflection that names what you heard, checks accuracy, and asks one follow-up question.
Best fit
People who want to lower defensiveness by checking understanding before arguing their own side.
Use the result carefully
- Remove names and identifying details that are not needed.
- Read every pattern match in the surrounding context.
- Edit the draft so it reflects your own experience and one doable request.
- Do not send a repair script if doing so could increase danger or retaliation.
Boundary
RepairTalkAI is a wording aid, not therapy, mediation, abuse diagnosis, legal advice, or a safety assessment. A missing safety phrase is not proof that a situation is safe.