Private wording reflection
Pause a conversation without disappearing.
Draft a pause message that names overwhelm, gives a return time, preserves care, and avoids using silence as punishment.
Best fit
People who need time to regulate during ordinary conflict while keeping safety, emergency, and coercive situations outside the tool.
Use the result carefully
- Remove names and identifying details that are not needed.
- Read every pattern match in the surrounding context.
- Edit the draft so it reflects your own experience and one doable request.
- Do not send a repair script if doing so could increase danger or retaliation.
Boundary
RepairTalkAI is a wording aid, not therapy, mediation, abuse diagnosis, legal advice, or a safety assessment. A missing safety phrase is not proof that a situation is safe.