Private wording reflection
Replace blame with language another person can answer.
Turn blame framing into an observable event, personal impact, and specific request.
Best fit
People editing a message before sending it after a disagreement.
Use the result carefully
- Remove names and identifying details that are not needed.
- Read every pattern match in the surrounding context.
- Edit the draft so it reflects your own experience and one doable request.
- Do not send a repair script if doing so could increase danger or retaliation.
Boundary
RepairTalkAI is a wording aid, not therapy, mediation, abuse diagnosis, legal advice, or a safety assessment. A missing safety phrase is not proof that a situation is safe.